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How to Stop Dog from Destroying Things When I’m Gone

The other day I got a message from a frustrated pup parent asking, “How do I stop my dog from destroying things when I’m gone?!”

You’ve probably been there too, right?!

You come home from an errand to find your favorite pair of shoes chewed, or the couch cushion ripped, or an unidentifiable mess in the corner. And lo and behold, there’s your dog, with a somewhat guilty look in their eyes. (Is it really guilt? We’ll cover that later…)

Exhibit A 👇

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If you’ve become frustrated by the fact that you don’t know how to stop your dog from destroying things, don’t worry, you’re not alone.

The good news is that more often than not, there are simple solutions to address the underlying cause and stop it from happening again. And no, the underlying cause is not that your dog is being bad or is mad at you!

We’re here to help you break this down into two major parts: why dogs destroy things when you’re gone and what you can do to stop it.


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Why Do Dogs Destroy Things When I’m Gone?

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First and foremost, your dog does not hate you for leaving. And also, let’s clarify that “guilty look” we talked about earlier… it’s (likely) not guilt.

Science has proven that’s not how it works… Read more about that here!

Now that we’ve cleared that pet parent guilt, let’s talk about the real reasons dogs can be destructive when left alone.

There are legitimate reasons why our dogs aren’t always good boys and girls when we leave. Understanding those reasons can help us address our dogs’ needs!

Reason #1- Too Much Freedom

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When pups are young, it’s important to keep them within a confined space, even when you are home, until they are fully trained and familiar with their surroundings.

Otherwise, young pups can become easily overwhelmed. Also, they likely don’t yet know what is a toy and what is not.

Hence, them chewing on your slippers, table, baseboards, etc..

Expecting your brand new puppy to know that they shouldn’t chew shoes is like expecting an infant to know not to put things in their mouth…

It’s just not how it works!

Here’s a simple math equation to help us all remember how to think about freedom for our young dogs… 😉

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I know that’s pretty harsh… but in most cases (especially with young puppies), it’s true!!

So, we’ll cover the solution later (or click below to jump to that section).

Jump to the solution: Limit freedom

Reason #2- Not Enough Exercise

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Most canine behavioral problems stem from a lack of mental and physical exercise.

Most dogs need between 30 minutes and two hours of exercise (physical/mental) per day, depending on the size and breed.

Not enough exercise causes pups to get bored and have a lot of energy bottled up, which usually gets taken out on your favorite pair of shoes.

As they say, idle paws are a devil’s plaything — bored doggies with built-up energy are bound to end up getting into trouble.

Jump to the solution: Give plenty of exercise

Reason #3- Dog Separation Anxiety

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Sometimes anxiety is at play.

Separation anxiety is more common in dogs than many people realize — we’ll get into what you can do for it a little later.

If, on top of destructive behaviors, your neighbors have told you that your dog barks/howls a lot when you are gone, it’s a good chance your dog is anxious when left home alone.

We’ll talk later about how to figure out if it’s anxiety!

Jump to this solution: Find out if it’s separation anxiety

How to Stop Dog from Destroying Things When I’m Gone

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The best way to stop your dog from destroying things while you are gone is to address the root cause.

Whether it be too much freedom, a lack of exercise, or separation anxiety, there are things you can do to address your dog’s needs and stop the destructive behavior.

Here are some things you can do to help your dog — and your household items — better survive time alone.

Solution #1- Limit Their Freedom with a Crate, Play Pen, or Dog-Proofed Area

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Utilize crate training. Crate training is a great tool for getting dogs used to relaxing in a designated space and staying out of mischief when unsupervised.

Crates help dogs get used to being alone, and find comfort by having their own ‘safe space’.

Be sure to use a crate that’s an appropriate size for your dog and give them something to occupy themselves while in the crate — these dog chews can be a great choice since they are made with simple, healthy ingredients and help keep teeth clean. (Be sure to monitor your pup when first giving them new chews.)

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If crate training isn’t an option, be sure to limit your dog’s freedom when you are not home.

Here are some alternatives to crate training:

  • Dog-proofed room
  • Playpen
  • Safe fenced in yard (weather permitting)

The same principles apply here — it’s best to give your dog a chew (or something similar) to occupy them so they don’t get bored even in a larger space.

Solution #2- Give Your Dog Plenty of Exercise (Mental & Physical)

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Utilize the time you are home to let your dog stretch their legs — and their brain.

A couple of walks and games throughout the day is usually enough to do the trick, though some active breeds might need a little more intense exercise.

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That’s Scout, and she would play fetch all day long 👆

It’s also important to note that mental exercise is just as important as physical exercise for keeping your dog’s behavior on point.

Many pet parents fall short in this area especially when weather conditions prevent them from getting in long walks or days at the dog park.

That’s why we’ve put together 21 games, ideas, and exercises for exercising your dog indoors. These are a great mix of new skills, physical movement, and brain-teasing that will give your pup all the stimulation they need to keep destructive boredom at bay.

Read all 21 ideas here.

Solution #3- Find Out If It’s Separation Anxiety

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In some cases, you’ll need to take a deep look at what’s going on with your dog to see if they are experiencing separation anxiety.

Our Happily Home Alone Pup course gives you lifelong access to the tools you need to determine if your pup is suffering from separation anxiety and provides tools for addressing it.

It’s taught by Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer Julie Nasmith, CT, CSAT and utilizes proven researched-backed methods.

Here’s a sneak peek of what you’ll get in the course:

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To learn more about the Happily Home Alone Pup course, head here.

Recap of How to Stop a Dog from Destroying Things When I’m Gone

So if you’re getting ready to leave your dog home alone today, just know that they aren’t acting out because they are bad boys and girls.

They just might have needs that aren’t being met and, since we haven’t yet perfected a dog thought translation device, don’t know how to communicate it with you.

Just as a recap of the best ways to stop a dog from destroying things when you’re gone are as follows:

  • Control the environment and give less freedom
  • Give plenty of mental and physical exercise before leaving them
  • Determine if they might have separation anxiety and address as needed

Has your dog experienced behavior issues when home alone?

Have any of these solutions helped your pup stop acting out when you’re gone?

We want to hear all about your pup’s home alone experiences in the comments below!

Written by Devin Stagg

Since being deprived of dogs during his childhood, he and his wife decided to make up for it by having three dogs, two Lab puppies, and one grandpa Puggle. Meaning you won’t see him not covered in dog hair. When he’s not busy training his dogs and/or picking up their poop, you can find him cheering on Tottenham Hotspur and all Cleveland sports (yes, even the Browns).

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2 Comments on “How to Stop Dog from Destroying Things When I’m Gone

  1. My dog, Maggie, stays in our garage is not allowed in the house. I walk her twice a day ,or should I say she walks me. We have bought her two dog beds. Which she has chewed up. She doesn’t chew anything else just her dog beds. I would like to get her a dog bed but she just chews them up .

  2. If your dog is destroying things because he or she has too much freedom, a crate is an excellent way to prevent the destruction (just be sure not to to become overly reliant on the crate and leave your dog in the crate for too long–that will cause another set of behavioral problems). If your dog is destroying things because he or she has separation anxiety, however, a crate (or any type of confinement) may not be the way to go, and may actually make things even worse. Some dogs with separation anxiety do just fine when confined, others do not and will actually injure themselves trying desperately to get out of the crate or confined area (thus, you’ll have even more destruction and a pricey vet bill). So before selecting a crate as your solution, be sure your dog doesn’t have separation anxiety (which is “diagnosed” by videotaping the dog’s behavior while he or she is left alone and watching the dog’s behavior).

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