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3 Reasons to Talk to Your Dog & How to Talk to Your Dog | Pupford

September 30th, 2023

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Dogs are more than just pets; they are loyal companions that share our lives and our homes.

Many people consider their dogs to be part of their family, and just like any other family member, communication is key.

Talking to your dog not only helps to strengthen the bond between you and your pup but also has many benefits for their overall well-being.

In this article, we'll explore three reasons why talking to your dog is important, how to talk to your dog, and whether or not it's okay to use ‘baby talk’ when communicating with them.


Dogs are known for their ability to understand and respond to human language, making them one of the most popular animal companions. Here are three reasons why talking to your dog is good, and even beneficial.

  1. To build a stronger bond
  2. To help with dog training
  3. To improve the dog's overall well-being

Let's look at each below. 👇

Reason #1: To Build a Stronger Bond

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One of the primary reasons why you should talk to your dog is to strengthen your relationship with them. When you talk to your dog, it shows them that you care and want to engage with them. It helps build trust and establishes a strong emotional connection.

Related: How to Fill A Dog’s Emotional Cup

Talking to your dog can also help them feel more secure, especially when they are feeling anxious or scared. Including your dog in family activities, acknowledging your dog, and giving them the freedom to move and make choices can help them feel emotionally fulfilled.

These actions go hand-in-hand with verbally talking to them. Even if we don’t speak the same language, talking to your dog opens up doors to new forms of communication such as facial expressions and tone of voice that you and your pup can easily recognize in each other over time.

Reason #2: To Help with Dog Training

Talking to your dog can also be an effective training tool. Dogs are known to respond to positive reinforcement, and by talking to them in a positive and encouraging tone, you can reinforce good behavior.

Related: Why You Should Choose Positive Reinforcement Dog Training

For example, saying "good boy/girl" when your dog follows a cue or displays good behavior can help them associate that behavior with positive reinforcement. This type of training can help your dog learn new skills and behaviors.

Over time your dog will learn certain keyword directions and the mental stimulation of recalling their meaning can be fun and enriching for them.

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Reason #3: To Improve the Dog's Overall Well-being

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Dogs can experience stress and anxiety, just like humans. Talking to your dog can help alleviate their stress and make them feel more relaxed.

When you talk to your dog in a soothing and calming tone, it can help reduce their anxiety levels, making them feel more comfortable and secure. This is especially important for dogs that may have separation anxiety or are nervous around new people or environments.

Engaging in conversation with your furry companion can foster a deeper connection, enhance their cognitive abilities, and promote their overall health and happiness.

However, some pet parents express their affection through varied means, including the use of ‘baby talk’.

Is this tone of voice suitable for communicating with your beloved pooch? Does it help them or confuse them? Let’s take a closer look…

Related: 3 Unexpected Benefits of Trick Training


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When it comes to talking to your dog, you may find yourself using a higher-pitched, sing-song tone of voice, also known as ‘baby talk’.

While some experts believe that it can be helpful in certain situations, such as when trying to soothe an anxious dog, others argue that it can be confusing for dogs and may not be the best way to communicate with them.

On the one hand, ‘baby talk’ can help to capture a dog's attention and make them feel more comfortable, as the higher pitch and slower tempo can have a calming effect on dogs.

Additionally, using this way of speaking consistently can help dogs to recognize their parent's voice and distinguish it from other people's voices.

Related: 5 Hacks to Get Your Dog (or Puppy) to Listen to You

On the other hand, using ‘baby talk’ exclusively may hinder your dog's ability to understand your cues and communicate with you effectively. Dogs respond better to clear, concise cues delivered in a consistent tone of voice, rather than inconsistent or overly emotional language.

It is important to strike a balance and use clear and consistent language as well. Ultimately, your dog will respond best to your natural speaking voice and tone, as they can recognize the nuances in your voice that make it uniquely yours.

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Talking to your dog is more than just saying words or ‘barking’ orders (excuse the pun). It's about communicating effectively and creating a strong bond with your dog. Here are some tips for effective communication with your dog:

  1. Use a friendly tone: Dogs respond best to a friendly and warm tone. Try to speak in a gentle voice that conveys affection and reassurance.
  2. Use clear and concise cues: When giving cues, use simple words that your dog can understand. Be consistent with your cues and use the same words each time.
  3. Use body language: Dogs also respond to body language. Use hand signals and body movements to reinforce your commands and communicate with your dog.
  4. Avoid negative reinforcement: Never scold or punish your dog when they don't follow your cues. Instead, use positive reinforcement by rewarding your dog with treats and praise when they do something good.
  5. Be patient: Communication with your dog takes time and patience. If your dog doesn't understand something right away, be patient and keep working with them.

These tips can help you talk to your dog more effectively and improve your bond!


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Effective communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship with your furry friend.

Talking to your dog is an important aspect of building a strong relationship with them. Avoid common mistakes like repeating cues or scolding them.

By using effective communication and showing them love and affection, you can raise a happier, healthier, and more well-mannered pup.

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How do you typically talk to your dog? Tell us in the comments.

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