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Hyper & Excited Dog When You Come Home? Try This | Pupford

Coming home to your dog after a long day can be extremely chaotic... I mean, enjoyable? 😉

If every time you walk in the door your dog gets beyond excited and crazy, then this episode is for you!

It can often be tempting to be overly excited and amped up when you get home, but that can be a huge mistake... Here are 3 tips to help make your coming home experience more enjoyable for both you and your dog.

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OVERVIEW OF AN EXCITED DOG WHEN YOU COME HOME

Our dogs love us, and when we've been gone that love often shows itself with excitement, barking and whining, and often jumping!

Here are three tips to help calm your pup down when you first come home through the door.

  1. Watch your own energy
  2. Fake exits & practice before the real thing happens
  3. Redirection & alternative behaviors (like teaching place/settle)

Let's dive into each one below.

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TIP #1: WATCH YOUR ENERGY

Dogs read our emotions and energy, much more so than you might think!

If you walk in the door and are amped up, talking in a high-pitched voice, and are overly excited then your dog probably will be too...

When you walk in, stay as calm as possible and avoid doing anything that may inadvertently reinforce your dog's unwanted behaviors. That can include giving attention, pets, or talking to your dog while they are jumping, barking, or acting hyper.

Give your dog time to calm down, and try to stay calm as well.

Related Reading: My Dog Is Driving Me Crazy! Do These 3 Things Today

TIP #2: FAKE EXITS & PRACTICE BEFORE THE REAL THING

a dog being trained to stay calm when their owner comes home | Pupford

Practice makes perfect... and the same goes for door greetings!

It's beyond important to try out the training techniques for door greetings outside of the context of you coming home after being gone for a few hours.

Try leaving, locking the door behind you, etc, and then coming back in 30 seconds and practicing proper greetings. Do that at random times throughout the day for random short intervals.

If the only time you try to get your dog to sit when being greeted is when they're already amped up, you're doomed to fail!

Practice beforehand!

Related Reading: Teach a Dog to Greet Guests Politely

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TIP #3- REDIRECTION & ALTERNATIVE BEHAVIORS

Those first few seconds when you come home will set the tone for the rest of that greeting experience... So try to make that initial approach as easy as possible for your dog.

Here are a few things that have worked well in our home with two large labs that can be very hyper.

  1. Right when you walk in, ignore your dog and then throw a handful of treats on the ground. This will get their nose to the ground, excited to find food. That 20-30 second distraction can really help reset their brain.
  2. Go straight to play. Walk in and grab their favorite ball or toy then ask for a simple behavior like sit or look at me. Once they do, throw the toy/ball and have some simple fun. Again, those few moments of distraction/redirection can help reset your dog's brain.
  3. Use a frozen treat or another treat. Right when you walk in, grab a frozen Lick Mat and give it to your pup. As he/she is distracted and happily licking the toy, you can give them pets and attention.

RECAP OF CALMING AN EXCITED DOG WHEN YOU COME HOME

dog calmly waiting on their place when their human walks in the door from coming home and not getting excited | Pupford

Calm door greetings take a LOT of time, effort, and practice. Remember that with all of these tips, the overarching tip/concept is to only reward the correct behaviors.

Be strict about not giving pets, attention, or praise when your dog is jumping, barking, or acting crazy.

By implementing these tips over an extended period of time you can achieve less chaotic door greetings!

Wanna learn more about impulse control?!
Check out 21 Impulse Control Games here.

PS- Learn about when puppies calm down (generally) here!

🐶 Don't miss out! Sign up for a 100% free online dog training course, 30 Day Perfect Pup with Zak George, to better teach your dog to be calm & attentive. Sign up for free here! 🐶

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Team Pupford01/26/2025

Hi Pam, check out these tips on teaching your dog to greet people politely! https://pupford.com/teach-dog-greet-people/

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Pam Frisbey01/26/2025

Lexi gets very excited when a visitor comes to the door. What can I do to get her to stop jumping up on visitors and running around like crazy.

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Shaun01/26/2025

Thank you my Daisy When I come she is so excited she pees I will try this see if this works thank you

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Janice Horton01/26/2025

My puppy is crated while we are at work and she is so loud with her barking and squealing. How do I get her to stop before I get her out of her crate? She is calm when she is not crated and my husband comes home.

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Team Pupford01/26/2025

Hi Renee! Here is a podcast on teaching your dog to greet people politely: https://pupford.com/teach-dog-greet-people/

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