Patience for Your Puppy or Dog | Pupford
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Having patience for your puppy or dog's behavior might be one of the most difficult things in the world... but in this episode, I'm going to explain why that patience is key to your happiness when raising a dog!
Too often with our dogs, we expect things to happen overnight. But, newsflash... they aren't robots!
Having patience for our dogs can not only help when it comes to training, but creating a better relationship with our dogs as well!
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OVERVIEW OF HAVING PATIENCE FOR YOUR DOG
After moving across the country with my 3 dogs I was taught a powerful lesson in patience. I expected my dog Sunny to be the fastest at learning to go potty in a new environment, turned out she was the slowest of all 3 dogs! I let myself get frustrated and impatient because I had expectations that didn't match reality.
She really wasn't doing anything wrong... just adjusting!
There are two very important things to remember...
1. Every dog is different.
2. Your expectations/timelines don't matter to your dog.
There are many times where we get frustrated because we think our dogs should be learning things faster than they are, but like people, dogs work at their own pace, and on their own time. So it is important to take a step back, and think if you are creating unrealistic timelines for your dog in your head. Working towards understanding our dog’s behaviors can also help us understand why they do the things they do!
When training, it is important to try to set your dog up for success, and that means moving at their pace! Take things day by day, hour by hour if needed. With time, patience, and training you will get there! But need a little extra motivation? Check out this blog post on Puppy Blues. Having a dog can be hard! But we always think that it is worth it!
Related Reading: 21 Dog Training Mistakes
RECAP OF HOW TO BE PATIENT WITH A PUPPY
So, learn from my mistakes and remember to be patient with your dog. Whether you're working on overcoming separation anxiety, biting, or leash pulling problems you will be better served to put in the training and be patient with your dog's progress.
Remember that all dogs are different in their progress AND that progress is not linear!
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Let me know in the comments how being patient has helped your dog's behavior.
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Leave a CommentMy 5 year old is so afraid of thunder and fireworks, I feel like I failed him somehow 😢
My dog is super excited when I ask him if he wants to go for walk. He is attempting to bite his leash . We get him on the sofa to get leash on but he is constantly trying to bite it ,or his sisters leash. We have gone thru 4 leashes already and it frustrate me. Even if I don’t say the words , when I get his leash he is off the wall. Please tell me what to do. He is 19 months old Chihuahua
Hi Linda, here are some tips for that: https://pupford.com/5-ways-stop-puppy-biting-leash/
Yes this am while walking my tucker we went down a different road. Of course this upset him but I’m trying to move away from our normal route because he loves to swim and getting too cold and dangerous for him. Anyway I was just walking when I tripped I don’t know on what all I saw and felt was pain. Id injured my left arm some time ago when tucker was younger and pulled me down. Anyway today is my birthday 🎂 oh boy. I finally was able to get up but I couldn’t move my arm tucker had stayed close but I’d let go of his leash I finally got hold of the leash and started home of course I forgot my phone. I tried not to panic cause that would upset tucker down the road I went luckily there was a young girl coming our way I tried to find and out cause tucker usually starts pulling i didn’t need that. Nowhere to turn I kept moving towards her tucker seemed to be fine . The girl must of noticed my arm dangling and said can I help u.oh please I said can u help me get him home. Luckily tucker remained calm and walked well between us. I thanked her so much.well. that’s it. Patience not only with tucker but with myself
Hi Nicole! I would check out our blog post on resource guarding: https://pupford.com/resource-guarding-basics/. You may also find it helpful to work with a positive reinforcement trainer to avoid future aggression towards the other dog in your home.